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Self-Centering Belief
Remember that your worst problem
is not being a victim of fraud.
It is being immobilized by fear,
and revictimized by predators!
You have always been a law abiding citizen. Now that you have been victimized and possibly implicated in a fraud this truth did not change. You have been abused by a professional criminal, do not let anyone else further that abuse. Stand up for who you are and your rights as a citizen who did not intend to be involved in a crime. Do not let any agency or person take your dignity away with accusations. Realize that you have simply made a mistake. It is not the end of the world. It will take an effort, but you will survive and become wise with ability to help others not to fall into the trap that got you. Look at yourself in the mirror and realize that there is still that really a good person there. Take the "High Road" and be good to yourself. I have been straight and I am a victim. I am a good person, who made a mistake. Always remember, YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON!
A well-known speaker began his seminar by waving a twenty dollar bill to the more than two hundred attendees as he asked, "Who would like this twenty dollar bill?" Hands started to fly up all over the room. He continued, "I am going to give this twenty dollar bill to one of you, but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple up the twenty dollar bill and then he again asked, "Who still wants it?" Still the room full of hands waved in the air. "Well then," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped the crumpled twenty dollar bill on the ground and ground it into the floor with the heel of his shoe. On picking up the now crumpled and soiled bill, he said, "Now, who still wants it?" There was not a hand in the house that was not held high in the air! "My friends," he decreed, "we have all learned a very valuable lesson with this twenty dollar bill today. No matter what I did to this money, you still wanted it! You wanted it because nothing I can do to this twenty dollar bill can decrease its value. As long as it exists, it was, and is still, and will always be, worth twenty dollars."
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way. We may come to feel as though we are worthless but no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. Clean or dirty, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who know you and DO LOVE you. The worth of our lives comes not in what we do, how much we have or ho much money we make or who we know, but we are valued by WHO WE ARE to the people around us. Everyone knows someone who can do a particular task better or worse that they themselves can, but you are still very special - humans are so complex that no one but you can bring your unique contribution to life - Don't EVER forget it.
Forget comparison and evaluation that only serves to negate your worth, Self-Valuation is the power of the human spirit that brings transformation into greatness!
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